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It's Not Perfect and Neither Am I

2/6/2014

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I recently told a friend that I posted a painting on my blog that wasn't finished and I wasn't sure I liked.  She asked me why I would do that. I think it is because I am still learning and I want to share what I am doing with others.  I am hoping that someone who may hesitate to share their work will be inspired by me to take that step.  I have found that sharing what I do is empowering.  It's fun to see what others see in what I have created.  It's always nice to receive kind words as well as words of encouragement.  If I waited until my paintings were perfect, I would never be part of this wonderful community.  So I share what I have created and looked forward to seeing what others have made in their world.

It is hard to be a perfectionist.  It stops us from creating and from becoming all that we can be.  Things can always be improved but I have found that when I start to get that feeling of I know there is just one more thing I should do to make this better than the best thing I can do is stop. Often after stepping away for even a short time, I realize the painting is good enough just as it is. Other times I realize just a little more work will make it just a little better.  And many times I ask for help from someone who knows more than I do.  This painting looks very different in person than it does on the screen. So I think I will take some time, leave it alone, and see what happens when I look at it again.  It's not perfect.  It's probably not finished.  But I like it and most of the time that is enough.  It feels good when you realize that your painting does not have to be perfect and neither do you.

           When you share your dreams and your talent with the world, magic happens.  Let the magic begin.
                                                                                                                                Ginny


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gillena cox link
2/6/2014 10:03:48 pm

sure enough, lets journey through art; have a nice Friday

much love...

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Linda K
2/7/2014 12:44:00 am

Great post Ginny. I agree that it's just as good to share the maybe not so pretty or unfinished art as I think it helps us all to grow. I see your painting going to a peaceful place. Thanks for sharing!

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faye link
2/7/2014 01:20:19 am

I really like what you have written here. I know at times my posted work could be better. Sometimes we have more time and inclination to keep honing. Sometimes not. I like your colors in this painting. The opposites on the color wheel are exciting to me.

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Annabelle link
2/7/2014 02:58:29 am

This post really sums up the way I most often feel when I need to share my art work with any group, always afraid. I have walked away from many projects to let the work seep into my mind , sometimes that's all it takes to complete the work and sometimes it just sits there for some time ; I have quite a few of those lying around …haha.
I believe, if I like a piece of work I've done then I have achieved my vision and it is complete and like you said, liking it is sometimes enough : )

Your painting has an ethereal feel to it , I like it as well and your post is a good reminder for me to never be afraid to share with others what I have created.

A little mental note I keep that usually helps is this quote “Nobody's perfect” from (Some Like It Hot ). Nothing is perfect although we all try for perfection and sometimes we come very close : )

Thanks for your fantastic post!

Annabelle : )

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gina link
2/7/2014 06:25:22 am

More wise words, Ginny. I think you are right -- perfectionism can cripple our artistic development. Have a happy weekend!

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giggiles link
2/7/2014 08:34:32 pm

Love the colors and texture...very pretty!! So true your post! It was Lynn who taught me that about no one being perfect! I have also had to embrace that over the years once my energy waned!! Because I had a hard time keeping up to my own standards....and I would have driven my child crazy if I had of kept up to that perfectionist standard! Now I share for the sake of the journey and fun!! Great post as always....

Hugs Giggles

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Kate link
2/9/2014 09:04:18 am

Nice post Ginny.

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Kim link
2/17/2014 09:06:34 pm

Your post today really spoke to me. Sometimes I think we get in the mindset that if it isn't good enough then why do it at all...if we don't do it, we haven't failed. Your work is always so lovely and calming to me, I'm so grateful that you post it for us to enjoy.

I also need to thank you for your lovely email. I apologize that it's taken me so long to respond. Your words were the start of what I needed to hear. AND I finally got out my sketchpad yesterday. :) I forget how amazing art makes me feel until I'm in the moment, then I think, how could I let this go for such a long time. Busy Momma life I guess, but I know I need to take that time for myself. Thanks again Ginny for your kind words.

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S.M. Hutchins link
3/2/2014 10:20:48 am

Sharing the process can be helpful and encouraging to other people. If all we ever see is finished work, we might be frustrated when we try to do something and it doesn't come out "as well." Knowing that it's all part of the process is a good thing.

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